Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Past vs Present

I long to hear your voice each day
Nothing excites me more than a phone call from you
No obstacle can ever get in our way
For no matter what happens, i just want to be with you

Does this sound familiar?
These are stanzas from the oath and vows young girls produce nowdays
Guys are known to be players, but in today's game girls are better liars
And us guys will grow soft and believe what we hear

A lot of young ladies i have known
Betrayed their own identity for wealth and fame
Such greed in them that have long grown
Love to their eyes is worth nothing more than a game

Young ladies whom i have known before
Perceived love as sacred,none betrayal
Eventhough times were tough and debts came knocking on the door
Love is something that no money can buy over, ever after is to stay loyal

- inspired by the love epic of Emil Chow the hong kong based singer whom life story seemed to be a legendary romance novel to myself. Emil before he was famous, his just another street performer who goes around with his guitar trying to earn a living in the streets of France and it was in France that he met the love of his life and this french lady struggled through the hardships of life with Emil till he achieves stardom and she is still by his side today as his beloved wife.

- Outing with my friends at night, almost every night and they kept discussing about girls and how girls are more manipulative, greedy and self centered nowdays. I wish i do not have to agree with them but it is true that majority girls that i have known today are really selfish and they are willing to betray their own identity to obtain another identity which is untrue, pretentious and not themselves.

I have a friend who have slept with her talent scout and sponsors to boost up her modelling career, i also have friends who goes around sleeping with random guys for the pleasure of it and not to miss out a friend who sleeps around with a married man not for love but just for his money as she proclaimed. At one moment a girl can story tell on how much of love she has for a guy and even if the world ends and skies starts to meteor shower , she would remain to be in love for the guy is the one and months later she's with another guy and she's having a dilemma, not out of guilt but a dilemma on how to ditch the old for the new. Young ladies nowdays, majority of them will betray their conscience for material gain.

Young girls from the olden days although are more traditional but they have a sense of respect and appreciation towards this bond we call love. Young girls of the past take love matters seriously thus they do not simply accept the love of some guy but only accept the one that her heart truly desires. Eventhough young girls that have been match made and have no love in the beginning learned to stay faithful and eventually love grows.

It is great to see how long relationships work those days compared to nowdays.
It is undeniable that there are still fine young ladies around with good personality , i am merely referring to those who are not. Yet again, i agree with Ying that it takes two to clap, where there's demand there is also supply, so if there are some chics who turned rotten it could be because of some guys or the media or lack of attention from parents or presssure from peers.

In conclusion there are rotten chics because there are rotten guys or vise versa. Please do not get the wrong idea, i have not suffered from being mistreated by my ex -gf before, this piece is written based on the stories told to me by my friends.

2 comments:

Keiichi said...

Um, it is difficult.Maybe girls have same opinion foe us,boys.
I love people. It is no matter, he or she, young or old. I love people whom I can trust. And almost people, I can trust, I think.
Have a nice day!

Nikoru said...

i wish i can say the same, but the ppl i know some are really angels but some are just unpredictable