Micro Expression Is Merely An Expression

It has been quite sometime since i last blog in this data base known to the world as my network of friends. I have been rather preoccupied with Facebook and my blog sites in blogspots.

I guess there isn’t any significant difference between my Facebook and Friendster apart from the fact that in Friendster i have quite a large social circles of online buddies which i know and do not know outside the network. In Facebook, i am more cautious in adding friends therefore a large number of my friends in Facebook are people whom i actually know and aquainted to in real life .

Friends , be it in reality or virtual reality as long as they come with empty hands while offering a sincere friendship i shall always accept them as friends. I have friends whom i met on Friendster and we become such good friends even till this very day upon meeting up and having tea together.

However, being human we’re binded to this feeling of curiosity. Remember the saying ”As Curious As A Cat?” . I believe given a comparison we as humans are way more curious than any cats that i know.

There are nice friends that meant well but at times their concern can be rather annoying. For instance, at times i sit with my group of friends over tea in some mamak joint , and i turned quiet all of a sudden while my mind seemed to have flown someplace else and upon reading my facial expression or micro expression , my friends assumed that i am feeling sad about something and no matter how i have tried denying it, they’re still looking for a story out of me.

How can i give them a sad story if i am not feeling sad? Some friends claimed to be able to read my body languages which seemed rather absurd for body language is only 45% accurate and as far as i have experienced it, my friends or one exceptional friend of mine who has been reading a lot of journals on body language have read mine all wrong.

We as humans tend to pressume based on our own analysis and strongly believe our findings to be accurate eventhough it is not for we have an ego that wishes to be right . In looking at a person’s micro expression we can determine whether he or she is lying and the result is 100% true? I don’t think so for even lie detectors can be fooled .

I agree that micro expressions are clear signals , the way our body or face reflex according to the way we feel be it nervous, panic, happy or sad. Such as the way our lips will look or the way our eyebrows move and so on if we’re lying which is way more accurate than body language but it isn’t entirely accurate.

A friend of mine claimed that this sort of reading is very accurate and there is no escape from its results. According to this friend, guys are afraid to learn about such signs because upon reading signs on our girlfriends there might be some hidden facts about them that we would rather not know about.

Yet, i believe such an idea is just plain over confidence. Not everyone in this world is an open book. As for myself, many have claimed to know me through my actions and my expressions but till this very day they still don’t. Micro expression regardless of how accurate the analysis can be is still just an expression and expressions are like mood swings, tend to change from time to time.