What Makes A Man?

Treat people the way you would like to be treated. At times i feel that this saying is simply untrue and lessons in life is just a great big hoax.It is true that by treating people with respect we get respected, yea it was that way during my parents time.

Nowdays, if we pour out sincerity towards helping a friend most likely we will be taken advantage of or at least i have been scam on numerous occasions, unspeakable events and not so memorable moments. During my parent's time people were more simple minded and without Facebook and Friendster or My Space and Twitter,life still goes on just by mailing each other through postal services.

During those good old nostalgic days, love isn't a game of empty promises and tough luck. It makes me sick looking at guys who prey on girls one after another as if its some kind of hobby or lifestyle and once they're done the poor victims are shared among their peers. It disgust me just by listening to these stories.

Who am i to judge?? I am not qualified to condemn these people for i was once young and irrational. In one point of my reckless life,i have accepted meaningless bets in getting to know and date girls just for the sake of proving something which appears to be nothing. Now flashing back to the past, i felt really ashamed of myself for being so ignorant . How could i have participate in such a meaningless game of deceit?

Yet, would i have been this way if i have not been deceived again and again?Once again who is in the wrong ? who is in the right?Yea whatever it is i have lost the one girl that i'm prepared to give my whole life and i believe it is a chain of cause and effect.

Having more than one girlfriend isn't something to be proud of or something that we should celebrate about. Friends that encourages such a conduct are not reliable friends for they are about to go down and they are bringing me down with them.I no longer support such an idea, it is no longer fun . It isn't having a record of girls around your belt that makes a guy worthy of being a man, but it is the ability to just stay true to one and say no to others that makes one a man.